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Going farther than makeout
Well...me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and all we have done is made out. Like he has felt me up and pretending to kiss me all over and stuff just like kidding and he asked "What if I was serious and I did that?" and I said "Haha I wouldn't take you seriously and I would just laugh" and he said "Haha yeah, I can picture that". But like, me and him are seriously meant for eachother. So I know we will be together until I move next year. And I really want to go farther than makeout or making out will just get boring, but we have more of a friendly relationship, like I would never let him finger me or anything because I hate things going in me like that but you know, ATLEAST feel up. In our type of relationship, it would just be awkward for us to do that. But I'm scared I might of given him a sign that I didn't want to go farther when I said that earlier. How do I get him to go farther? Don't say to start feeling him, because that would be double awkward since I have a phobia of penises.
Haha I know...I'm weird, and my boyfriend is weird to.
But I just need help on getting to see if we can go farther. We just make out soo much, it is getting a little boring!
I need some spicin' up!
Thanks in advnance!
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I think before you consider taking your relationship further with him or anyone else, you need to work on your issues, such as your fears of penises and intercourse. These are major issues that can and most probably will effect you later in life.
You will never enjoy intercourse with anyone with these issues hanging over you and that is what intercourse is about. It's about enjoying being with that person. It's supposed to be pleasurable, and it won't be for you.
Deal with your issues before you go any further.
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let me tell you i had the same problem with my boyfriend [we're broken up now]
but just go with the flow and its gunna be really scary at first but once you get over that first thing itll be fine
and make sure hes a great dude cause i had the best boyfriend and we had a more friendly relationship and well lets just say he left me
make sure ur guy is okay with having a friendly relationship and stuff too
just a little word of advice
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its kindof hard to answer this one, but ill try.
have him feel you, i guess, since you dont like penises. like have him feel down your bra, just like put his hand there. you know what im saying?
well this was really tough to answer. hope it helped.
♥staci.
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