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Annoying girl.
Kay well theres this girl and I've known her since I moved to my town when i was like 6. and she's always been annoying and really bossy and controling and thought she was always right. she still is that way, 7 years later (we're in 8th grade). it was only once in 2nd grade where she realized to not be so mean and she could actually make friends. well theres this younger girl in our neighborhood.. and she always follows what that annoying girl says or tells her to do. like when we were younger and even now she'd like make her and some other young kids like follow her lead.. like she'd give them spelling homework and stuff.. and im like. your not their teacher. and she'd MAKE them do it. and whenever we played games outside, like her, me, and 3 other girls in our grade, she'd make these gay cames like basketball-baseball that we didnt really wanna play which she'd alter so that all the rules apply to her so she can always win. its so stupid and like i used to get into fights with her a little bit sometimes cause she'd argue with me about stupid stuff. like im one who barely gets into fights with people but shes so friggin annoying but i have to see her every freaking day cause she hangs out with my friends so she's just there. i wish she could move. like my mom says to just ignore her but its not easy all the time. like 2 days ago she went over the edge. like im in this club at school and we're planning a couple of fancy schoold dances and the annoying girl had never been to a dance before. so i told her that there would be other fun things to do besides dancing and stuff and if she may consider it cause we're putting a lot of effort into it. and shes like no. i asked if it was cause of her parents and she says no, cause some of my friends cant go cause they dont want them to dance with guys or something. so i ask then why and she gets all in my face about it and it ends up with yelling and now we're pissed at each other. and sometimes she tries to make me embarassed but i dont get embarrased and not by pathetic people like her who like to put people down. like its a struggle living with her. like me and the 3 other girls along with her walk home from school together cause we all live around the same area so its like the same route. and like once she lost her cellphone and she made a huge deal about it. i mean honestly not everyone cared to look for it and i had other things on my mind but when i talked about something else she yelled at me. i mean im sure if the same thing happened to me she wouldnt be looking everywhere. i even asked her where she last put it and she yelled at me then that was another retarded pointless fight. i was trying to help her goddamit. and the other girls say they dont like her sometimes too but im like wtf.. why dont they do anything about it! i like having friends who i can have a fun time with and that i dont always have to fake it cause sometimes i did just to keep things cool between us (tho we were never friends. ew.) for the sake of my friends who still liked her. but now im just fed up with it and i dont really want to make up with her until she apologizes first. i mean why waste my time to try and apologize with her? when she'll just make things worst, that bitch. like today she said that i didnt care about anybody but myself because i came early on the bus and sat in a seat that this girl wanted to sit in and i'd been sitting there for like a week now so its pretty much my spot. and im like what the fudge? who is she to say that? and right before i was actually thinking of trying to fix things up between us cause drama is dumb but that totally changed my mind again. and im going trick o treating tomorrow with my friend and other people in my hood and that girl said that trick o treating was soo immature but all of a sudden she thinks its okay and is gonna go with us! and im so pissed and i wanted her to not be with us. i want her to stay home or like her parents to freaking move cause i've never thought that way about a person before. its just her whos just so inconsiderate and ignorant. and shes like that everyday. so how can i deal with her? and on halloween my mom said to just ignore her again so should I? like how? make it easier. and what are some things i should say back to her if something happens cause im not good on thinking on the spot and i'd say something stupid. i dont want to go to guidance at school cause its not worth the time so.. yeah. im not saying im picture perfect either and neither is she though she thinks it is, but lots of people at school think shes prissy and bossy and stuff but i dont get why she cant just change her ways and actually be a nice caring person. ughh why did her parents have to move to my neighborhood. cause if she moves out id never hear from her again thank god. like on thursday i have this club in school and im just gonna avoid her cause i can see my other friends in it and not talk to her at all. i hate like being all snippy and mean to people. i dont get why it comes natural for some but not for me. i like hanging with nice fun people unlike this annoying girl. and yeah random but she IS a priss cause like shes always saying things how like we shouldnt shout cause it disrupts the neighborhors, or says that things are really immature (she thinks im immature when she gave my gym bag to this guy in the front so he could see whats inside. she also thought that was embarrasing. it was just retarded and some girl in the front that was my friend gave it back. yeah real mature of her right. but if i talk to her about that she'd just change the subject and act like I was the criminal.) like sometimes i shouldnt forgive when i do but this time i think im gonna put my foot down.
damn sorry this was soo long but well its a long story. any help and i'll be really grateful. like please no like 1 sentence answers please think seriously about this and it'll really affect me. thanks. :)
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This is my advice, from what you have told me,you are both not real friends for each other..If she is not a person you can have fun with then why waste your time? If you actually sit there and wish she moved then why even fuss about her? Yes,indeed your other friends are her friends but that doesnt mean you HAVE to be as well...You need to stick to your own beliefs and not go with what everybody else is doing. If she is bossy then just ignore her, as in dont speak to her.Nobody wants a "friend" that tells them when to breathe and when to speak. But i must say...you as well are not a friend to her,you apparently dont want her to be your friend,she is just an annoyance to you.Another advice,just because a person wouldnt do something for you doesnt mean you couldnt do that something for them.That just makes you as equal to them.
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