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Going farther than makeout
Well...me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and all we have done is made out. Like he has felt me up and pretending to kiss me all over and stuff just like kidding and he asked "What if I was serious and I did that?" and I said "Haha I wouldn't take you seriously and I would just laugh" and he said "Haha yeah, I can picture that". But like, me and him are seriously meant for eachother. So I know we will be together until I move next year. We will HAVE to go farther by then, but we have more of a friendly relationship, like I would never let him finger me or anything because I hate things going in me like that but you know, ATLEAST feel up. In our type of relationship, it would just be awkward for us to do that. Especially since I gave him the wrong sign in saying I didn't want to go farther I guess. How do I get him to go farther? Don't say to start feeling him, because that would be double awkward since I have a phobia of penises.
Haha I know...I'm weird, and my boyfriend is weird to.
But I just need help on getting to see if we can go farther. We just make out soo much, it is getting a little boring!
I need some spicin' up!
Thanks in advnance!
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Who says you have to go farther?
If you're not comfortable doing something, don't do it. Simple as that. Part of any successful relationship is being comfortable with each other, and if you've got hangups or phobias about anything, it's going to create tension.
From what you're saying, though, it seems that he does want to take things further and is just waiting for a sign. You may need to sit down and have a very honest talk with him about what you want and what you're comfortable with. That way, everything's out on the table and there's no miscommunication later.
Hope this helps.
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