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depressed over a guy that i dont even know.
ok...i already posted something a little similar to this, but it was about getting ppl back on myspace, which I guess isnt possible once youve blocked them without adding them back.
theres this guy. and i really like him. like crazy. ive had a crush on him for about two months. the thing is....i dont know him. we've talked on myspace and hes really funny. and hes GORGEOUS. not everybody things so but hes EXACTLY the "prince charming" ive been looking for.my friend is friends with him and told him i liked him. but he told my friend he just got a new gf. i was so embarrassed i blocked him on myspace. and i dont want to add him back because he'll know i blocked him. long story short, i cant get over him. he's all i ever think about. its crazy. ive never felt this way before about someone ive never even talked to in person before. its really starting have an impact on my daily life. everyday in school i always try to avoid any place i think he'd be because its always so akward when we see each other and i feel really stupid. i want to get over him but deep deep deep down all i want is to be with him no matter what it takes. id do ANYTHING just to see what it would be like to be his girl. i feel like im never going to get over him. please please please give me some advice. do i need to get over it?? HOW???? its IMPOSSIBLE to get over it. i even cry sometimes when i think of how lucky his girlfriend is to have him and she doesnt even know it.
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Awww... puppy love. That's what it is. Unblock him, I know you think that you shouldn't, but that's exactly why you should. You're overthinking it. Try and forget about him and spend some more time with people you know and are comfortable with. And stop thinking about how lucky his girlfriend is and whatever. It's unhealthy and making you feel like you're not good enough. But, I advise you to not feel so shy or bad about it. Did you ever think that he's just as embarrassed as you are? Just take a deep breath and go on. I can't tell you how to. You need to do it yourself. If you want to become friends with him, go for it. And forget anything you felt embarrassed about in the past. This will be your new beginning. Now, in your mind, you should think of him as a new person that you have never met before, and have never talked to. He is a stranger, and you don't know him. Because you don't. Convincing yourself of this is the best way to move on and start a new friendship with this NEW PERSON. Hope this helps.
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Its okay, i think i went through this before. It was like fourth grade but I remember thinking how much i was inlove with this guy and.. its silly to think of it now but its sad because I know how i felt. I think you might just be wanting to have someone so badly that your putting this guy in your "dream man's" position. If im wrong, sorry. But think about it.. you might just picture yourself with him because hes the only one you know of. I'm sure, if and when you find another guy you like you'll not care about him. Try picturing him doing something that makes him unattractive and maybe it will turn you off. Find something abuot him that you don't like. Focus on that and just be like.."wow hes not so great after all". Try watching movies with really hot actors so you can think about them instead of him, because atleast you know that you'll never see them or meet them, ya know? Just try replacing him with someone else. Maybe, try sucking up your fears and getting near him, or seeing him in person because you can't hide forever. Maybe, once you see him you'll realize hes just like any other guy. Hope this helped
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