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fight.
Me and Adam got in a fight.
I donno I call him the Future Gay Kid. He calls me Fat. I KNOW not really great friend but It was like the friendship WE HAD.
I was joking with Steven about him and he flipped out on me saying im not gay and stuff which i know hes not..I didnt know it would hurt his feelings. I wouldnt if i knew it hurt him so much.
Well then Becky brought up how he calls me fat and it only made him madder.. but its true i dont like him calling me fat but i am. it hurts my feelings but when i tell him to stop he makes a joke about it. or that hes just kidding.
I dont want him mad at me. I dont.. ill stop calling him future gay kid if he stops calling me fat. He told becky that when he calls me fat its funny, but when i call him the future gay kid its gay.
i know it doesnt make any sence. i know because it doesnt to me.. i apoligized i told him i didnt want him mad at me and he completely ignored me..
... I think i like him. because when hes not saying im fat or anything, were flirting I KNOW were flirting because well first everyone says we are then he blushes and like No..... and its cute but then he goes and pulls this.
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SAD
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I think telling him how you feel might be a good start and see how things go but if he's just going to act immature about the whole thing then let it be - it's his loss.
As for the gay thing I think it's unfair for you to not call him gay when he finds it amusing that he can call you fat and think it's funny - pure stupidity and narrow mindedness! Tell him your sorry but also explain to him how it hurts when he calls you fat and thinks it's funny. It wouldn't be funny if someone called him an ignorant asshole (which he clearly seems to be at this point) so I see no reasin why calling someone else something is something he can find amusing. Explain you'll stop saying he's gay because he doesn't like it but you'd like him to also stop saying your fat because it's hurtful and xplain how you feel about him and just see how things go from there. :)
Good luck. :)
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well first of all you did the right thing apoligizing to him but you should confront him face to face no matter how scary you may think it is, it wont be. Tell him how you feel about everything, when he calls you fat tell him your hurt and that you like him...if you think you should sometimes i think frnds shouldnt because it might make it awkward once you break up but its better to have loved and lost then not loved at all. DO NOT CALL HIM GAY!!! guys hate it sooo much and sometimes it means he is....wow...thats awkward with the whold liking him thing but life isnt fun without any of the risks. So bascially tell him how you fell face to face tell him you like him and dont call him gay anymore
GOOD LUCK
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