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another problem at school
Okay, there is this girl at school named Julia. I always hang out with her and everyone always asks us " Do you go out" "Is that your girlfriend" all the time! We always say no were just good friends.
Well, she wants to be more than friends, and I dont.
I told her that I was seening another girl (Amanda), which I'm not, she just likes me and I like her.
Well I want to see how my relationship goes with Amanda, before I ask Julia out. But the only reason I would ever ask Julia out is because I wouldnt want to hurt her feelings.
But some idiotic, stupid girl told Julia that she will have to wait until I admit that I like Julia, and that she will have to wait until I hit second base. Thats so stupid, because she doesnt even know that I truly like her.
Also, there is this girl named Tamra who I like. She is as tall as me and that is really odd, because I am the tallest person in my grade.
Who should I go out with,because if anyone out there can help, please, Im just cluless, and I have alot more drama going on in my life! Who should I go out with?
PS. Please dont say tell Julia that I dont like her, because if you were in my shoes, there is a slim to none chance that you or I will have the guts to do that.
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Out of the three, who do you really like? Do you like Tamra, Amanda or Julia?
If you really don't see Julia in that light, then you don't have to tell her, but don't make her think that you do. It's pretty bad to make a girl who likes you think you like her when you really don't. So you don't have to tell her, but don't lead her on either.
If you like Tamra, who cares how tall she is? Some girls are tall & can't help it. It's not a big deal. If you don't prefer tall girls, however, then you don't have to date her, but you can at least give it a chance & see what happens. Just because she's extremely tall doesn't mean she's not nice.
And as for Amanda, don't lie about going out with her if you're really not. It'll only backfire in your face & you'll have to prove it. If you're not dating someone, then be honest about it. Lies can spread just like fire, so it's best you don't say any & just be honest.
But honestly, this deicision is up to you. If you don't like Julia, don't ask her out. If you like Tamra but don't see it working out, then I'd try anyways & see what happens, and stop lying/leading people on. It's impolite.
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Okay! You don't have to tell Julia you don't like her, but PLEASE don't lead her on. Try to cut down on your time spent with her and don't flirt. Go out with who you really like, that's the only answer. Figure out who would most want to be with. Also, don't go out with someone just to have a girlfriend! If you're still clueless, stay single, it's fun! =)
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