ok, i have this friend and she has liked this boy but not for a long time...she asked him if he wanted to hang out with us and he said ok. well we hung out wit him and i never thought he was that cute or that nice or fun until i acctually started hangin out wit him...he rejected my friend and said that he likes her but he doesnt want to go out wit her...and me being me was flirting with him and i think he likes me and i like him ALOT! should i take a chance and go out wit him and hope that my friend is ok wit it? or should i just lay back and let a nice guy slide by?
signed,torn
Additional info, added Tuesday October 16 2007, 7:38 pm: and this friend is only an ok friend shes not my best friend and she gets mad at me real easy. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Guruofadvice676 answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 12:43 am: Well. . . . .do neither. . . . .what you do is you take some time. . .you havnt hung out with him enough to see a whole side of him you could like something at first glance but then get a taste of it and find out it wasnt as it seems so you dont have to let a 'good bf' go or lose a 'good friend' just chill out and wait until you have hung out alittle and see where it goes from there [ Guruofadvice676's advice column | Ask Guruofadvice676 A Question ]
WhenIComeAround answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 12:42 am: Okay so it's an ok friend and not a best friend, that's good.
Well, if I were you just take her down and explain to her how much you like him and he might like you back, and there's no point holding a grudge or holding a crush because he doesn't feel anything in that way towards her.
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