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I know but he doesn't
Me n the guy we hardly ever speak. Were so shy around eachother and he blushes like crazy when i'm around. Everyone says he likes me and the things he does around me kind of back it up. I like him too but if we hardly talk what can we do to take the next step? Were so shy we cant even sit together in class not one word not even a hi out of us 2. what should i do? I really don't want to make the move but if he cant should i?
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Since you two are both shy, it's going to take at least one of you to initiate the conversations and often. Looks like that's going to be you. Belive me, it's not as hard as it seems. First, you have to get it in your head that you're confident and have no need to be shy. Convince yourself of this, it does work..it works for me.
Next, talk to him extremely often. Like, on a daily basis. Even if all you say is, "Hey, how are you doing today?" It's something, and the more the two of you talk, the more comfortable you'll become with each other. Which is the the ultimate goal.
Finally, continue doing this for awhile until you work your way up into even better convo starters (you can find a lot of convo starters on the internet, if you look in search engines). And ultimately, become a lot more comfortable with him and the communication should be flowing.
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The first thing you should do is talk to him.
If you cant think of any good conversation starters, try:
asking him about sports he plays
asking him about the homework
comment on a teacher or test to him
try ANYTHING to break the ice.
or drop your pen in class and ask him to pick it up.
xxtiffany
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