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best friend and i like the same girl but..
Its October 16 of 07. Well the names Stephen. the situation is that a very good friend of mine Aram was seeing this girl Brianna for 6 months. We all had worked together at a theatre and thats pretty much how we all met. Recently they broke up at around the end of of july and since then i have been hanging with Brianna a lot lately.
i was with her when they had problems in mid july and had started have feelings grow for her. They break up then about a month later when we hang out a lot she tells me that she has feelings for me. Well i tell her that i had feelings for this other girl Angela. I told Brianna that it was Angela but eventually told Brianna i also had feelings for her but she didn't know that it was stronger with her at the time. So we hang out more but i hold back because of the fat that i had to talk to Aram before doing anything and clearing that situation up.
Well countless times when Brianna and were together i held back and i feel that it was unfair to her because she also thouht that i wanted to be with Angela. Well after a little under three months she talking to Aram now and i still have feeling for her and i know that she has feelings for him. Well i want to talk to him about that.
I know that they still have feelings for each other and that she has feelings for me but i think that she would choose him. And i have talked to him about how i felt about her and he was glad that it was a guy that he knew but still he is a best friend and i know that hurt him. But i didn't do anything with her. I held back for Arams sake. What do i do now?
I talked to Aram around the end of september and i want to talk to him now about what we should do but i mean if i cant talk to him because he is mad or hurt by me what the hell can i do? I want him to know that it should be her choice really. We both want to be with her but the fact that he has been with her first makes me want to give him the chance because they have history. .
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I think that you should tell Brianna that you have feelings for her, and if she likes you better or Aram better. If you ask me, she probably likes you better, but I might be wrong. But there is one thing, if she likes you better, Aram might not want to be your friend. Aram will probably feel betrayed. But whatever happens, life goes on. But you will have to chose who you have more of a good bond with. Hope I helped!!!
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