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best friend
okay well my best friend has been having a lot of family trouble for as long as i can remember so like 3 years when i first met her, she would always be grounded or call me crying for one thing or another one example was one day she went and cleaned the whole house, well when her dad called to say he would be home in a minute to pick us up, he asked if she vacumed and she said no but she cleaned everything else. tht was it he flipped out on the phone and she was grounded. its reallly hard to believe because from the outside looking in the family looked perfect. perfect grades, house, they were athletic.well this year has really beeen bad for her, she doesnt care what she looks like anymore and has been taking her fustration and anger out on her friends and became a total bitch. we talked about it and i think shes treating everyone better but the other night she was crying and eventually she told me her parents were getting a divorce and a bunch of stuff but now she mentioned that she thinks her dad will move across the country with his brother! her mom would probably stay here but she "hates" her mom. now im upset cause i need her so much probably more than she needs me. shes the advice giver, the party thrower, the date doctor. i dont know how to handle it and also i dont know if shes exadersating the story her boyfriend and i had had our differences but i think were ok now, i kinda want to talk to him so that when she needs the support were both on the same page. hes a guy and guys are idiots/dicks...no offence but whatever. how do i help her through this (dont say just be there cause i know that) and how do i help myself through this if she does move
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no offense taken to help her you should try to help her understand that her parents breaking up is probably for the best and let her know she is not alone
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You need to totally support all her decisions,know that all friendships have mood swings,have a very positive attitude so it will give her the strength she needs to overcome this such difficult time,and try to understand her so she could understand you.
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