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Question Posted Friday October 12 2007, 12:39 am

so i was hurt a while ago. I didnt know that if you werent raped that its still abuse and your still effected by it. I need help talking to someone i trust alot about this i talked to her once. she went thru some of the same stuff i did probley more. and she was effected more by it because it was her dad. but i need help opening up to her agian i did once but im scared to talk to her agian i feel like she doesnt have enogh time to. the first time i talked to her about this i felt so free. and i felt like i would always feel comfortable around her, but i dont anymore cus i feel like she doesnt want to talk about it. even tho she said i could when ever i needed. i dont know what to do...

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Brandi_S answered Saturday October 13 2007, 10:44 pm:
You know what? She WILL have time enough to talk to you.
She may not want to talk about what happened to her, but that doesn't mean she doesn't want to listen to you. She knows how you feel, and she knows the importance of being able to relate to someone who can help.
You need to just go talk to her about it. She said whenever you needed, and she surely meant that.

ygs-29/f

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xgirlygurl answered Friday October 12 2007, 4:55 pm:
What makes you think that she doesnt want to talk to you?
she obviously doesnt mind talking about it to you, so you should just try and find a time when you both have time.
Maybe ask her to come round so you knwo shes going to have plenty of time to talk about it
Im sure that once you get talking again then you will be able to talk freely to her once you start.

hopw this helps xxx

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