16/F. I've been friends with this guy for a year. Last year, we werent really that close. But we got closer over the summer. In the beginning of the year, he would go to my lunch just to talk to me and be with me. Everyone thought he liked me. I'm starting to like him a lot. I text him and he asked me to hang out this weekend. We ended up seeing a movie but nothing happened. I don't know what to think really. Does he like me or not? I'm sick of everyone saying it, I want him too. But here's the thing... I dont know if I should ask him or if i even want to because first, if he doesnt then it's going to be awkward. And what we have right now is great but i dont want to jeopardize it, but i definitely would like more. I dont have classes with them though, and I see him at lunch because now he comes to my table to talk to me, but he made friends with most of my friends so he doesnt talk to me ALL the time anymore. So yeah, I dont know. What should I do?
karenR answered Tuesday October 9 2007, 7:33 am: I think he does. Hes taking it slow and there is nothing at all wrong with that. Just because a guy isn't all over you on a date doesn't mean he doesn't like you. In fact it could be the best proof that he does!
He is coming to your lunch room so I would say he likes you. If you feel the same then talk back and be friendly towards him! He is a gentleman. It can be hard to find a guy your age who doesn't have a one track mind, enjoy it and stop worrying! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Babii-Blonde16 answered Tuesday October 9 2007, 7:23 am: Well if he went out of his way just to talk to you at dinner he must like you. And if everyone says it they cant all be wrong. But you have to believe it yourself to have the confidence to ask him.
If he likes you the same way he will tell you and if he just likes you as a friend he will take it as a compliment. And at least you will know how he feels. =]
But if you really really cant bring yourself to ask him just try flirting with him a little bit and see if he flirts back. And trust me you will know if he is flirting with you they make it so obvious lol. Hope i helped =]
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