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Making New Friends and Borders
So you couldn't call me the most social active person. People actually call me quiet (even my friends) and its harder for me to talk to people I don't know really well and make new friends. Its even hard for me to have fun sometimes, I always seem to have my guard up. I'm not even sure if I want to be accepted by these people sometimes, but maybe it would be good to make some new friends. I, or at least I think, have progressed a lot over the years when it comes to talking, being comfortable with myself, and things like that, but when I'm away from a friend and with people I don't know that all goes down hill. Its almost like nothing has changed at all. I hardly know what to say and when I get attention from a boy or someone making a joking about me or someone making a sort of "rude" comment its like their looking down on me. These borders are hurting me and its taking me on a sort of emotional roller coaster. What do you think would help me talk to people and maybe make some new friends? :)
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become bold go places without your friends because you may not wanna here this but i thin you ar using your friend as a crutch and thats just a means to hide from people you dont know so i think you should as i said earlier go places by yourself somtimes that maybe hard to do but do it before things get to bad
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Yah. I'm just like you. I don't know if I can help you totally, but I'll try to help you the best I can.
As for people joking about you or making rude comments about you- you don't want their friendship to begin with. Who wants friends who make you into a joke or say rude things to you? You deserve better friends than that.
As for what I do when around new people: When someone tries to talk to me, though it is hard, I at least try to find something to make small talk about. I mean, you don't know the person at all to discuss common interests, so small talking is a good way to feel around for a subject you both have an interest in, in turn, giving you something more to talk about.
When you are with your friends, you have to let your guard down. I know, it's hard to do, but it is necessary to allow a true friendship to mature.
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