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ok so yeah, you posted back to one of my questions, and ive heard you give like amazing advice. and i didnt really explain the whole situation, about my friend. if you dont wanna read it then its fine, because it may be a little long.
So, my friend and I were at my ex-boyfriends baseball game, awhile back, and I was watching him and my friend sam, was there with me, and she took my phone, and took all the guys numbers in it, she then later IMed them as fake people. She got peoples pictures from photobucket and everything!!! I just found out she did this recently. I'm so embarrassed by the whole thing. Anyways, like I said, shes not very pretty, I mean, I know that sounds mean and all. But, I don't know, anyways, she actually pretends to date these poor guys! I'll look at there myspace, and they'll say in a relationship and everything. So, I talk to everyone as I'm walking down the halls, right.. and I'll be like.. oh this is my friend sam, and i'll turn and she'll be gone. So, its not like she even wants to be friends with the people i'm trying to make friends with. Anyways, I didn't go to homecoming, because my date got sick. And I didn't wanna go with my friends, because, I knew I would have just been walking around stalking these boys. Thats all we ever talk about, is them. Its really annoying. So, then she texted me and shes like oh so what are you doing tonight? And I'm like Jake and my brothers. And shes like ewww jake! hes quiet and an 8th grader. ew your a child molester. I mean, see what I mean, she always says stuff like this to me. And I always just forgive her. But, last night, I didn't. When she said that, it got me really mad. And all the anger from like, everything else shes done, kinda like it all exploded. so, i was being cold to her, and wouldn't talk to her. and im like, well i don't really wanna talk to you right now. [because she was just getting me madder and madder about every litttle thing she said, so i knew i needed a chance to cool off.] and shes like ok whatev. like she doesn't even care, if someones mad at her.
I mean, I don't know about you, but if someone has a problem with me, or is mad at me, I want to fix it. and apologize and all that. she just doesn't. shes even told me before, she said/.."yeah i don't care, if people get mad at me. because they;ll get over it."
so yeah. I really need some advice on what to do. thanks for reading.
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Well, it sounds to me like this girl may have some mental issues, actually.
She has crossed the line by taking numbers from your phone. If she wanted those numbers, she should ask those people for them, not steal them from you.
I understand that you want to apologize and make things right if you make someone mad, but you can't really do that if the person is A) getting mad for no reason, B) seems to like being mad or C) said person is really the one who owes apologies.
Since talking to her does absolutely nothing, and trying to help her out does absolutely nothing, the best you can do is tell her it is time to move on from this friendship. Then go find yourself a real friend.
You can't go through life having friends who flip out on you all the time for nothing, and who don't care to resolve it. You can't have friends who invade your privacy in order to play their own twisted mind games, such as stealing numbers from your phone.
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