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why did he kissed me?
okay i like this guy and he likes me back and he knows that and we're not going out because my parents said i cant date till 18 and i told him to wait till 2 years and he said he will and stuff but then at the same time he said he cant wait because he likes me too much and i told him to wait till 2 years and stuff but then my friends said we're acting like we're bf and gf but then hes getting more clingy everyday and today when he was dropping me off to my class he gave me a hug and HE KISSED ME ON THE CHEEK and i didnt like it even though i like him why is that? and i dont know what to do anymore because he got more clingy and stuff help please?
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I am so proud of you! For one, you respect your parents and two, you respect yourself! That is to be commended!
To answer your situation, you didn't like it because he disrespected you. I'm willing to bet that he sees you as a challenge and is willing to push until he conquers. That's the way guys think. The sad thing is so many girls these days think by giving in to a boy's advances they will find love and that is such a lie.
It's up to you to say no, no, no. If you two are meant to be together, he will realize the diamond that he has in you. However, if he continues to make you uncomfortable, the best thing you can do is stay strong in your principles and walk away from the relationship.
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You probably didn't like it because he has crossed the line you drew in the sand. You told him he has to wait 2 years, yet he is acting like a boyfriend. He is disrespecting your feelings on the matter.
You need to talk to him. Tell him you can't be having this sort of huggy, kissy, lovey-dovey, clingy type relationship with him, or anyone, until you are 18 years old. He needs to either A) respect that, or B) move on.
I mean, if he continues this behavior and making you feel uncomfortable, you aren't going to WANT to date him in 2 years.
He needs to give you some space. Out of respect.
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