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should i stay a virgin and how to boost confidence
you seem so sweet, and i appreciate you taking time to read this. well i am a virgin and have been with my bf for 5 years, but sometimes i feel like having sex but i want to wait til marriage. u kno what i mean right. i dont kno what to do. any advice? and how do i boost my self esteem and confidence? thank u so much. xoxo
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I can't tell you if you should stay a virgin or not. I'm not you, and that is a personal choice.
You do what you feel is best for you and what you are ready for. If waiting for marriage is something you feel strongly about, remember if you have sex before you may feel regretful.
But like I said, it really depends on when you feel ready to make this big step in your life. (Contrary to what seems to be the popular belief, loosing your virginity IS a big step in your life.)
As for how to boost your self esteem and confidence, I don't know how well I can help. I'm not the most confident person in the world, so I don't think I can give you very good advice about that.
Self esteem, however, I think I can give you some advice about.
A long time ago, I decided that I don't care what other people think or say about me. Their opinion does not matter. I know I'm a good person, and MY opinion is all that really matters.
If they don't like me, or they think I'm just an awful person, well that is their loss, not mine. I'm not above others, but I can strive to be above their actions.
I am my own person, I do my own thing, and I'm proud of who I am. I like me, I like being me, and I would never wish to be somebody else.
I don't know if that helps, or if it was even what you were looking for, but I hope it was.
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