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loose? tight? help
ok so my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time a couple of days ago. he didnt finish but hey, sex is still sex. he said i was REALLY tight and like, ive been fingered before a few times but idk. what can i do to get looser?
oh and also,
i was a virgin before that day and he wasnt, but umm...it didnt really hurt me that bad. like it did for a second like really bad but then i got used to it. does that mean that hes small or im just used to it?
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being tight is a good thing. if you were loose then i doubt he would be able to even feel anything.
don't worry about getting looser because the more you guys have sex, the more your vagina will adjust to his size.
but if it really bothers you that much, get him to finger you right before you have sex, which loosens you up a bit.
but i promise you that being night isn't a bad thing.
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if he said you were tight im pretty sure he ment that in a good way, if a guy says your lose thats a bad thing, so you dont want to be lose.
and for your second question thats usually how it goes, it only usually hurts untill your hymen is broke then you get use to it as you go, so i dont think it would be because hes small..
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First of all, you being tight is a good thing. It usually feels better for the guy; however, it might cause you some discomfort, like what you described in your question. There's not much you can do about it really. I'm sure your vagina will stretch out over time. When you had sex for the first time and then it stopped hurting, that's all it was: your vagina stretching a little bit and adjusting to having a penis in there. It will probably continue to hurt when you have sex in the future, but each time your body will probably get used to it again like what happened the first time. Just make sure to tell your boyfriend to go slow so he doesn't hurt you and you should be fine.
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