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Is he just using me?
I really like this guy named Rob. We spent the ohter nite together a whole hour on the phone (i'm not one to talk to guys on the phone) and no awkward silences either. hes so easy to talk to, and we hung out at the football game too. He would put his arm around me and stuff. Yet, whenever anyone asks him who he likes, i'm not on his list. Which is fine, it just doesn't make sense to me why we would talk aand be so close and everything. Anyway, at a dance we danced a lot, and then everytime he txts me he is always like i really want to hang out, and all this stuff but my parents wont let me hang out with guys. One thing about him i really dont like is that he has gone all the way. I haven't. And he makes a lot of sexual jokes a lot, but most of the time its only around his friends. My friend thinks he is just using me for sex, and i really dont know if he is or not. What do you think?
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Well, I'm not too sure, considering that you haven't given a lot of information as to what he does. He could be, but then again, he could just be shy too. I've had a couple of boyfriends like that, where they're too embarrassed to show or tell their friends who they like. He could just be scared that his friends will make fun of him. There is, however one other way to find out. If and when he asks for sex, tell him no. A real man will be ok with it and not put you down, but if he dumps you or causes a fight, you were far better off without him.
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Well, I can't really tell you from this info weather or not he is using you, but what sounds VERY strange to me is that you are so close to him, he makes sexual comments toward you, yet you AREN'T on this list of girls he likes.
That alone would tell me to steer clear of this guy.
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