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band boys.
okay so i really like this boy named mike and hes really doesnt know me. so im sitting here like umm okay. and like hes in band and im in guard im an 8th grader and hes a sophmore. soo. and he made out and has had sex before and i dont want to go that far. then i like this senior thats a crack head and i dont know what to do because other people like him and i just got over him and only like him as a friend but i dont know what to do about mike because i really like him but my friend sean was like umm no he will make you cry. HELP
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What no third and fourth options? Mike and the senior crack head may both be bad news and so what? There are only a billion other dateable guys out in the world and closer than you think! Never settle for less than you really want and know you deserve. Wouldn't it suck to be stuck dating one of these fools, and miss the opportunity of an amazing guy when he walks right by you, but you did not notice him, because you were tangled up in another guys problems or a bad relationship? There are ALWAYS other options...ALWAYS.
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To start off,
Your friend Sean's just trying to help..[I hope you know that.]And it sounds like the guys youre attracted are not very great guys.What about some 8th graders,or maybe even some freshman?.Otherwise,talk to him..and if its just a thing like you think hes hot or something,,its not real like.Im not sure how to give advice to this one.And if this guys a jerk-face,theres better guys out there.Im in 8th grade too,and I would definelty not take the risk of going out with a sophmore thinking nothings gonna happen if it already has with him and so random other girl.
Just be careful.
God Loves You.
:]]PEACE.
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When it comes to the guy from band just introduce yourself. Ask if he would like to hang out with you and your friends at a movie etc. some time. This way he knows you are interested but you won't be embarassed if he says no.
You asked him out but not in the love or date sense there. If he responds no or doesn't seem interested than you'll know he's not in to you.
If someone is abusing drugs or acting in an unacceptable manner like guy number 2 don't get involved romantically or friendship wise. The person unless they straighten their life out is bad news for you because you get dragged into that situation by association.
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