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i like my friend but he's beena real dick lately
Hi.. umm well basically i think im in love with my bestfriend. but hes a dick! ok this is wat happened. he have been best friends for like 1 year and a bit and he cronically flirted with me and even kissed me! and then he goes out with sum other girl, then i decide to try get over him and be happy for him.. and then just as im liking this really nice guy, he tells me that he really likes me.. so im like ok ive liked you for ages! and so we kinda get going.. then he feels bad about his old gf so he tells me he cant get with me atm because its only lust not love. then after he completely breaks up with his ex.. i assumed he would u know.. get goin with me agen.. but no. he starts going out with another girl AFTER hooking into one of my friends at a party and AFTER flirting with me when we went out to a movie. i really dnt know what to do. he doesnt get that he is the first thought when i wake up in the morning.. and the last at night. he knows how i feel.. i cant seem to like other guys because my feelings for him r so strong. what can i do to get over him without losing him as a best friend? please help (btw sory this was so long)
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Well you got to give yourself a chance with someone else,get to see that there are other guys who will give you what you need,what you're looking for in a guy,you have to give it a shot,because you may not know what you're losing this guy is a jerk he likes to play his games if he decides to ask you out again reject him,say because you are going out with somebody so he can feel your pain or worst for being a player,and a guy with no respect.Don't let this guy put you down.What can he say,he probably won't even care because he loves hooking up with a lot of girls,for sure it won't break your friendship he will just have to deal with it.
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I know how you feel because i was in a situation like this a little while ago !!
Soo .. basically, i know this is really hard to understand bcz i've had it explained 2 me and i didn't like it !!
... he doesn't give a stuff how you feel!! He's playing with your head and deep down if you think about it you will realise its true !! It gives guys a boost if a girl tells them she loves him. He probally doesn't love you !!
It will take time but you have to realise that he's playing with your head !!
Hope this helps ! ;]
Holla back x Livii-xo xx
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