Question Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 4:20 pm
Ok this is going to be long... ok this all started the beginning of my 8th grade school year ok bascially i was sitting in choir class and this guy Nolan asked me if i would go out with his friend Matt who was right there when Nolan asked me so i said no because i thought they were proabably joking now i'm not ht type of girl that guys ask out alot i've only had one bf and it didnt last long because i moved anywho thats when i started likeing Matt then like a few days later maybe a week or something his friends Corey and Jeremy asked me if i would go to the valentines dance with Matt and i wanted to figure out what was going on so i told them i would give them the answer later but hten i never answered them because i still think they were joking but i kind of think they wernt joking because when Nolan asked me in choir and i said no Matt seemed upset and Nolan was like i know why your upset or mad or something so then i went to the mall one day with my friends and they saw Corey and Derek these guys that are well kind of friends with Matt i mean Corey was there when Jeremy asked me if i would go to the valentines dance with Matt anywho so we got kicked out of the mall so we walked all over then we were at this grocery store outside and all my friends left and i dont know Corey or Derek so i jsut ignored them but hen they came over and sid Matt likes me he jsut wont admit it or whatever so i still dont know if he likes me or what that was all about i mean i've had like two people ask him if he likes me he said no both times now we are both freshmens in high school but i go to a different school then him so i dont see him like ever but i keep having dreams about him and i mean i thought i'd stopped likeing him but i dont know now and i still dont know if he likes me and i really want to know but yeah
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Ashumms answered Thursday September 27 2007, 1:13 pm: Okay, if Matt blushed or looked upset when you said no to Nolan when he asked you out for him, then he may have liked you (he still might). If he did, he probably said no when people asked him if he liked you because he didn't think you liked him because you said no when people asked you if you would go out with him/go to the Valentines dance. He said it so he wouldn't be embarassed since he thought you didn't like him back. The best way to find out if he actually does like you is to just ask him straight out or just tell him that you like him and see what his reaction is. If he likes you back, he'll definitely tell you since you finally admitted it. But if he doesn't like you back, then it won't be a really big deal since he doesn't go to the same school as you so it won't be awkward running into him in the halls. [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
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