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boyfriend drama
okay. i have this really kute boyfriend but we have been through our ^s & downs and he thinks we need tew go fast and im not comfortable with it wat should i do?
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Tell him you want to take things slow.good luck
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First of all, you spell cute with a C, not a K.
Tell him you're not comfortable moving that fast, even though you really care about him.
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Good luck! :D
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Tell him. Let him know that going too fast when you're not ready makes you uncomfortable.
If he doesn't accept what you have to say, dump him. Don't ever let anyone make you do anything you're not ready to do or anything that makes you uncomfortable.
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Hi :]
And yes, I agree with everyone else. If you aren't comfortable with going at the pace he wants to, then you guys need to either balance it out or break up. First of all, right off the bat it sounds like he just wants to go fast so he can get past kissing and whatnot, to make it somewhere further that can leave you feeling regretful, angry, and robbed. He just doesn't seem like a guy worth being with... Any guy who likes you AT LEAST, should respect the way you feel whether it benefits him or not.
What should you do? Talk with him. Tell him with no smiles, or jokes, that you want to take it slow, and if he's willing to respect your decision then more power to you two! But if he keeps insisting, then cut him loose, there are plenty of other exciting people to meet :D
Uniq
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Tell him NO. Sometimes guys can be stupid and not listen to you when you are uncomfortable with something. Talk to him..tell him that you don't want to move too fast. Just tell him how you feel basically.
If he has a problem with that; he's not worth anything.
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Talk to him about it. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
If he forces you to do anything you say no to, that's rape.
--Jack
(17/m)
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