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a friend, she changed, also scared for her
kay so theres this girl, i thought she was my bff.........but then i think she kinda changed over the summer. and then she tells me stuff, and i believed her, and then she says shes lieing. but now i dont know if its true or not and im scared about her now
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From the little to info to work with what I can best see is that your friend is confused, and in that she is confusing the people she loves, you.
I know from personal experience people drift apart and change through just a few months. I lost my best friend, we still don't speak! I still miss her. And even though I don't agree or understand some of the things she does or has done I know that I wish I just could've been there for her, maybey if I had done somethings differently, things would be different. But that is in the fast and now I need to focuse on the future.
You have that chance! This is your present and you can change the current out come of this situation that will be similar to mine! Tell her you love her for what is on the inside no matter how corny it sounds! That you don't understand exactly what is changed but that you still want to be there for her and want her to be there for you! Things don't have to be like old times because we all change. But if you can salvage this friendship it is worth it! Tell her you don't like lies, and you wish that your could start a clean slate, no lies, no uncept promises!
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sorry for asking for more personal ?s but wat excacly did she tell you. sorry n if you dont wanna answer my ? then thts ok but u can trust me
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Talk to her and tell her that the truth is really important, and lying just creates huge messes.
If she doesn't listen, well, there's plenty of other friends to be had.
--Jack
(17/m)
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