Question Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 2:27 am
ok.. so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 months.. and whenever he gets texts or calls.. he wont let me see his phone bc he said that its the only think that he can keep "private." once he even deleted a text that he got before i could see his phone and said that it was one of his friends. is it just me or is he doing somethin behind my back? and everytime i wana go out with my friends i tell him im goin to say jennifers house and hes like bull fucking shit about anywhere i wana go. does that mean that he really does that stuff ? what do you guys think?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jeanne answered Monday September 24 2007, 12:21 am: Hmmm... it does sound pretty suspicious. If he's that worried about you seeing his texts, then obviously there's something he doesn't want you to see. And I think his reaction to you going out with your friends says it all. You see, when someone is being dishonest or sneaky, they often think that other people are like that, too. If he thinks you're lying to him about where you're going, chances are it's because HE lies to YOU. I tend to agree with the others here... ditch his butt and find a guy you can trust! [ Jeanne's advice column | Ask Jeanne A Question ]
sunnyville answered Sunday September 23 2007, 6:36 pm: He could be doing stuff behind your back what you could do is either confront him about it or you should sneak,see his text messages,the calls he received to see whether he has been a faithful boyfriend or not. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
dancedance42 answered Sunday September 23 2007, 6:16 pm: That does sound a little fishy
And he needs to respect that you want to hang out with your friends.
Talk to him, tell him how you feel.
If he doesnt understand, hes a bad boyfriend, and you should dump his sorry ass.
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