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How do i not care?
Hey, im a freshman in high school and already, i have people that do not excatly like me, though they dont even know me! How can i not care about what people think of me? What did you do to accomplish this? Any stories or advice would help greatly. Thank you =D
(14/f)
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No matter what you do, you cannot make everyone like you. I went through the same thing, people may not like you because you are smart, or loud, or quiet, or white, or black, or WHATEVER. The point is that everyone automatically judges everyone they meet. It is tough but eventually you will only need to worry about yourself and the people who really do like you. But don't waste time trying to be something your not, and don't waste time on people who don't care about you.
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This may not be entirely helpful...because I know it and yet I still worry what people think of me. But here it is -
If you are complete within yourself, you will not be offended of what people think of you...no matter how bad it is.
If someone says...Oh I don't know...that you're stupid or something, if you believe in yourself enough to know they are wrong then it won't bother you.
We all wonder what other people think of us until we come to terms with ourselves :) but until then...well you already know what people are thinking. They're wondering what OTHER people are thinking :P
Don't doubt yourself and others won't either.
Its easier said than done, I know, but its worth it.
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Just tell yourself how stupid that is. And its their own problem, cause they are missing out on a great person.
girls can be pretty bitchy in HS, but eventually, theyll grow out of it.
Just ignore them. you have your friends and they have theirs. all you need to worry about is you.
xxtiffany
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