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what should i do?
17/female
thing is..... I Like this guy and I know he likes me aswell but we are just 2 totally differnt people!
for a start I really hate people smoking around me and he smokes. but he said he would stop for me!
Another thing is... he drinks alcohol every weekend and am not really like that!
I wont bore you with all the details but these kind of things are putting me off him, should I forget it and go for it?
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Depends how much you like him. You don't have to drink alcohol with him, right? And if hes not doing anything dangerous like driving or doing drugs I don't see the problem with that. If its only weekends then he isn't an alcoholic.
Its great that he would stop smoking for you. Quiting smoking cigarettes is generally harder than certain illegal drugs, so if you make him do it be aware that it may take a while and he won't be in the best mood.
Bottom line is that you shouldn't require that he stops doing things he enjoys just to be with you. :) Its compromise. Let him drink, and if he wants to stop smoking for you then he can. But don't ask too much of him, it wouldn't be fair.
If you can see past the smoking and alcohol and you still like him then go for it :) if you can't then don't.
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