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I just switched schools and went from knowing everyone to knowing no one. I've clammed up!
How can I make new friends?
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With your old friends, you were able to tell a silly joke, voice your opinion, or speak up in class, and you knew how they would react to you. You're quiet around these new kids simply because you're self conscious. Stop worrying! Remember: You had lots of friends before for a reason. So give yourself a social kick-start by making eye contact with others in the halls and in class. Just look at people and smile. That will let them know you're friendly, even if you're a bit shy. When you're comfortable with that, force yourself to say hi to a few other kids. Pretty soon, you'll be able to make small talk about homework. And you'll be surprised at how quickly people will respond to you. Another tried-and-true strategy is joining some after-school activities. You never know—your new best friend could be at the next intramural hockey meeting!
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