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im gettin really depressed cauz its already been a month of skool and im still single every one i know has a bf or reciently got one and we all know that when you get a bf your friends dont count as much soooo they spend most of their time with their bfs. i only have one friend who's a girl left and she'll probably get this guy she likes to ask her out this week so im gonna be totally alone fast! i got soooo depressed at that thought that i just started bawlin and i was at skool too so that means i was really depressed cauz i try really hard not to show that kind of emotion around my classmates. i dont know how im gonna make it though the week without losin it cauz just this sat. my all time best friend got a boyfriend, and now im afraid she's gonna desert me like my other best friend did adn i havent talked to her for 6 months cuz she spends every wakin moment with him! is there any way i can get a boyfriend before i go into a complete depression episode? or can i find a way to hang out with chics that have a bf ,and not feel like a third wheel?
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I'm in the exact same situation you're in. The best advice I can give you is to not show that you're depressed- because that could be the reason that you don't have a bf. Most boys seem to be attracted to happy girls. Don't be fake or anything though.
It's only been a month! It's not like you're 32 and you've never had a bf. You probably have had bfs!
I'm always depressed all the time because I'm single too.
Focus on doing something you like to do- because that way you won't be worrying about getting a boyfriend adn then the boyfriend thing will take care of itself and you'll get one!
Don't be like "on the prowl" for guys all the time. Not saying you are, but you might be that way. how could i know?
good luck with this- and just don't worry. just remember- it's not about "getting" a guy, it's about him getting you.
just think that way and you can just let the boys come to you.
i hope i helped.
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I know how your feeling. It sucks not to have a b/f and at times it feels like you're teh only one without one. Let me tell you though, realtionships are overrated. They're not all what they seem to be. They take work and usually have lots of drama and emotion like a roller coaster with all the ups and downs. Trust me I would know, I'm 17 and just a few months back got my very first b/f and first kiss and so on. Then two months later it ended. My advice would be to just not think about getting a b/f let one come to u or if your shy be a lil more outgoing with guys at your school, but basically just wait and trust me you will find the right guy for you one of these days and in the mean time tell your friends how you r feeling neglected from them and you would like to hang out with them more like you guy sdid before she got a b/f. Maybe he could bring a guy friend for u to meet or she coudl and you guys could just all hang out. So best thing to do inmy opinion is just wait it out and in time you will get a b/f in the mean time just enjoy being single and talk to your friends about them making time to hnag out with you. Hope i helped some!
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