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okay..well this is going to be long. but whatever. i was with this guy from like the middle of june until the end of july and we had to end it bc he got into trouble with the police or w.e..anyways i still liked himm and he still liked me..we live like 45 mintues away from eachother to..and like a few weeks afterr we ended it before i texted him and told hinm i missed him and i said i knew it wasnt going to work but i just had to tell him that..then he said he will try and make it work. so we started talking and this time he was like the sweetest guy ever. we made a promise we weren't going to hurt eachother at all and idk he was just like perfect this time..then last friday night he got drunk and did some stuff with a girl..he told me about it on sunday and he felt bad but he said it didnt mean anything. idk if i sohuld believe him or not..ahh please help.=/
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You should stay away from this guy. I dont know how old he is or what, but I wouldn't date a guy who has had police trouble, drinks AND has sex with girls while he is drunk. That is really bad behavior. If you really want to be with him, tell him that you want him to stop drinking, partying and having casual sex. And to never ever get in trouble with the police again. Don't date him till he complies, and if he won't then he doesnt care about how you feel and you shouldnt date him.
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I would have to say that i believe him and although that doesn't make what he did right it certainly makes it less wrong. this guy sounds like he really cares about you and is willing to stick it out through hard times. What men do when they drink is stuff the most of the time we regret. I'm sure the decisions he made that night would not have happened if he was not drunk. it perfectly understandable for you to be mad and even he'll understand that but unless it happens again i would keep working at the relationship.I hope this helps:)
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