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is he jealous ? and Im getting tired of him !
Okay Last night i went to my best friends dance party . and everyone was danceing with everyone and it didnt matter if you had a boyfriend or not we were all danceing close and jsut haveing SOOOO much fun. Well me and one of my guy friends we were dacing close and my boyfriend got mad and cussed and he said he was going to leave. Well he said you need to stop danceing with all those guys. and It made me mad! and he told me afterward that it was his two friends that made him mad at me but then today he told me it was because he was tired.(which i dont get) and also i was standing by the one guy i have known for a while and we were playing with each others phones and my boyfriend just came up there and pulled me away from him ! and he jsut cant trust me . . do you think i should break up with him . and i have already tried to talkk to him about it and he wouldnt listen !!! uhhhh he makes me MAD !!!! please help !
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I think that you are both at fault here. Just talk to your bf before dancing that close to somebody, tell him that it means nothing and that he's just an old friend or whatever the case. But he could have handled it better by confronting you when the song was over and just simply ask you what you were doing instead of jerking you away right in the middle of a song. Tell him how you feel about what he did and give him a chance to explain why he reacted so harshly. I know you gave some reasons and those could be it but just try going in a private comfy inviroment and talk to him about it! hope this helps!!
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I think your boyfriend's reaction was very normal. Think about how YOU would feel if HE was dancing close and/or flirting with other girls. If you really like him, then you probably wouldn't be real happy about it.
When you have a boyfriend, you need to think about how your actions are going to make him feel; and if you care about him, you won't want to do things that make him feel bad. If you're not willing to give up dancing and flirting with other guys... then yes, you should break up with him, because you're not ready to be in a relationship.
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I don't care if you give me a bad rating for what I'm about to type.
If you have a boyfriend you SHOULDN'T be dancing with other guys. You are with HIM not anyone else and he SHOULD get mad at you for that. To him it seems like you're flirting with every guy you dance with or with the phone guy. You say he can't trust you, but you gave him a reason not to. I don't blame him either, you need to either stick with a boyfriend and ONLY him or stay single so no one gets hurt.
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well in my opinion i think you should just break up with him. i mean there is a difference between caring and over protected. hes to controlling. and odds are your relationship wasnt guna last till marriage, but thats my opinion
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