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Sex with my boyfriend
Okay I have been dating the same guy for 1 year & 3 months. I'm 18 & he is 20. We didn't have sex until 1 day after our 8 month anniversary. When we have sex he always aims to go for my butt instead of the other. Not only that but he always talks baby talk, I mean I know it may be our thing but whatever. If you really think about it at our age thats just weird. Okay here is the thing. It has been 2 almost 3 months since the last time we have had sex the right way. I bug him about it every now & then but not until it really bugs me. Well he had spent the night the other night after he had got off work, his parents were out of town so thats the only way he could stay the night, which is odd, because he is 20 but he still lives at home & doesn't plan on getting married anytime soon. Or moving out of his parents house. Anyhow. The morning after he had stayed the night nothing happened, I mean no kisses no touching nothing. So the next morning I asked him what was wrong & why doesn't he want to have sex with me, & he said sex isn't ever on his mind & it doesn't thrill him like it does other people or me. I barely get kisses. He doesn't even touch me anymore. He won't give me any explanation of why he seriously doesn't wanna touch or have sex with me which kind of makes me think hes gay, but anyways, if anyone knows how I can deal with this or if its even normal for a guy not to want to have sex with someone he says hes in love with. Please give me advice as soon as you can, I will greatly appreciate it.
Signed- Confused one.
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I am sorry you are in denial.
You talked to him and he told you he was insecure about his looks.
Hes lying.
Hear that?
Lying.
There is no straight man on the face of the earth who is going to suddenly become so concerned about his looks that he is unwilling to have sex with you.
Ive already told you. If your boyfriend has lost sexual interest and doesnt want to touch you anymore, he is either cheating on you, or gay.
If he is not cheating, grats. Youre dating a queen. If hes truly not a queen, then there is NO OTHER POSSIBLE EXPLANATION THAN INFIDELITY.
Its proven psychology. There are God knows how many books about it written by stupid authors because the concept is so basic these people could write truth and get away with making money off of it.
And giving me a 1 isnt going to make your boyfriend straight or loyal.
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i completey see why you have suspicions for him being gay. i think you seriously need to sit him down and have a talk with him. let him know your suspicions and confront him. you desserve to kn ow if hes gay because he is your boyfriend. y ou should promise not to tell anyone because it sounds like hes not ready to come out of the closet. the best thing to do is to talk with him and he will hopefully admit he is gay..then this way at least you have some closure to the relationship.
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This must be an awful situation to be in!
It sounds to me (maybe not to other people) as though he is gay, but maybe too scared about what family/friends/society will think to go and experiment with his sexuality?
I think you need to talk to him, and tell him your worries over his sexuality (assuring him that there's nothing wrong with being gay) and the fact that his behaviour makes you feel really unwanted.
Only you two can work this out... That's the only advice I can give you, sorry...
Good luck. xxx
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