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my best friend is sleeping around
ook so my friend is 16 years old and she had sex for the first time when she was like 15 and shes never used a condom. im scared that shell get pregnant but she just wont listen to me! also one of the guys she did it with is friends with my brother and my brother is really protective of me he found out that she had sex with him and hes threatening to tell my mom if i dont stop being friends with her but shes been my best friend for so long and i dont want to just stop hanging out with her! and i know that if my mom found out she would make me stop talking to her. i dont want to be like "stop having sex or we cant be friends!" because thats her desicion if she wants to do it and i cant stop her from having fun and living her life so what should i do?
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You're right. You can't tell her what to do or else you'll stop being her friend. You could tell your brother that just because your friend is "sleeping" around doesn't mean it has to do anything with you because you're not HER. If he still insists on you not being friends with her, try talking to your mom FIRST, & just explain to her that you're not going to follow your friend's choices and that you know your boundaries and you intent to keep them. Hope it all works out.
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