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My Ex...(I rate)
Ok, i have a problem with my ex boyfriend (Jeremy) Last year we dated for 5 months and then i dumped him for this other guy. We didnt talk this summer because we kinda had a fight. Then this year on the first day of school he was in 2 of my classes! After the 2nd class i asked him if i could call him and he said yeah and we talked a little bit. After that I thought it would be fine but boy was i wrong. Then (of course!!!) I was in a group with my friend, a girl i didn't know, HIM, and his other ex girlfriend who hates my guts! She and i have PE and hon. biology together (Hon. bio is what i hav with both Jeremy and his other ex, Miranda) She hates me because he dated me last year when she liked him still from the previosu year. Anyway we have extra lab periods when we do labs and stuff and when I work with him i get super stressed out and get really mad at him! I don't know why but he just frusterates me SO MUCH! On the first day i wanted to cry when he showed up in my classes and was super stressed and today after getting together (the whole group) in study hall to assign jobs for the lab report I got so stressed out w/him i was just like ok does everyone know what they're doing? good cause im leaving! And i left. Miranda (the ex) and i talked because i said "i know u dont like me but..." and she said" i thought it was the other way around-i thought u didnt like me!?" and i said "no i don't have a prob with u" and she said same so i guess we have a truce or whatever. i never hated he and actually think she's pretty nice but i know she used to hate me even if she doesn't anymore. My main question tho is why do i get so stressed when i work with him and how can i change it??? Last year we never had classes together so this is a first but i get so mad i want to cry or scream or sumthing and this isn't gonna work with me like that everyday! No way! Please tell me how to chill out!!!!! And sorry this is sooo long! I rate too!!! :D
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OK first of all you need to breath. I had the same problem except i dated him for three in a half years. I would get stressed with him because for some reason I would always think about the mean stuff he said about me or all the fights we got into in the past. So chances are its not that he stresses you out, its your past with him that stresses you out. You may not know it but if you really think about it you will see that the past comes up whether you want it to or not. So maybe you and him need to have some one on one time and try to resolve something that happened in the past. Lets say he said something to you and you didnt think that it would bug you but you can ask why he said it. Maybe you will feel better if you try and resolve some past fights with him. And remember to breath.
~AdviceGirl123
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are you mad because you dont have him? remember you dumped him! he apparently didnt have what it takes to keep you happy. make a list of what really bothers you when hes around, is it just seeing him, his voice his actions, you need to find the problem before you can fix it. pick another lab partner, avoid him, or even change classes, before your grades suffer. good luck and remember you can always count to ten {or 100} BRIE
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You know, my friend had this problem once. The answer is: figure your feelings out. Maybe you still like this guy. If you dont, talk to him and straighten things out. then you'll be happy. pour it all out
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