sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday September 6 2007, 3:48 pm: The best way to handle this is to ask him yourself. Don't make a big deal out of it, just ask nonchalantly. If you try to make him ask you he will either think you're desperate, not even realize that you want to go with him at all, feel weirded out, or feel overwhelmed and scared. In other words, it's not gonna work. Asking someone to go with you is hard for anyone. It's just as hard for a guy to ask as it is for a girl. Asking him yourself shows him that you are CONFIDENT. Guys love confidence! When you ask a guy what they like in girls they will almost always say confidence first. Know what you want and go after it. Make him feel special and wanted. He's human too. Guys aren't a different species than girls. They're a lot more like you than you think. It's also very MATURE to to ask him yourself. You don't want him thinking you're some lame, immature kid. You want him to see you as a woman - someone capable of having a mature relationship with him. I mean, you don't want it to end with homecoming, right? I know I didn't answer your question the way you wanted me to, but I really disagree with the way you want to go about this. If you're totally scared and can't bring yourself to ask him to go, which I really suggest you do, still do it personally. Write him a note or something. Do NOT get friends involved. It is so intimidating and confusing. Your chances are much better if you handle everything yourself and are direct about it. Actually ask him if he wants to go with you. Don't beat around the bush or he won't know exactly what you want. If you like this guy as much as you say you do, all of this is worth it. Get past any fears you may have and just do it. It'll be over soon. You don't want to blow your chance with someone so awesome! Good luck! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
sweetie91 answered Thursday September 6 2007, 11:39 am: you could tell your freinds but ensure you trust them!...soo they dont blab their mouth!..oryou could talk to him let him get to know you and lethim mke his own decison about how he feels about you...because if he dosnt theirs no point waiitn for a a one way relationship!...that jus means that its on from one perosn the othr perosn doesnt feel anything fr you..which might notb a bad thing beaucse ther might b sumone else waitin for you...:D:D...soo jus giv him a smile!...or talk to him..aot boys r very shy soo girls have mke the first move!...gud luck...n please tell if i helped or even if i didnt!...n keep askin me questions..:D:D [ sweetie91's advice column | Ask sweetie91 A Question ]
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