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i want to be friends with the fry cook
im not ugly but im not narcisistic.just had to get the out of the way. ok now the story.
i work at a custard stand. we have ice cream and hamburgers and a bunch of stuff. i take care of orders with a few other girls and then there's the fry cook. who's 17 (i'll be 16 in a month). he's gorgeous and blond with some of the nicest blue eyes i've ever seen. he doesn't really like new people and he thinks they mess everything up. i've been working there for two months and he's been there four years. him and i rarely talk unless im telling him an order for him to make. today we had our first conversation that lasted a whole 10 seconds. haha. i want him to accept me more but i dont know how. he's really sarcastic but for the most part he's nice...except to new people. i dont know what to talk about with him without sounding dorky or too desperate for his attention. he loves cars and is in love with his car but i don't know much about them. he's a senior at the next town over and im a junior. i'm too scared to request him as a friend on myspace. help me figure out how to start a conversation with him. i laugh at his jokes but he doesn't seem to notice.
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Sorry but not everyone will like you it is a sad fact just be nice and reach out with something like myspace worst case he says no there is liitle you can do. And forcing it will not help at all.
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"...without sounding dorky or too desperate for his attention." <-- To be quite plain, that's exactly how it sounds. :/ You sound desperate. Take it easy and just talk to him. Don't laugh at his jokes if they ain't funny - that just makes it look like your trying to kiss his ass and no one likes an ass kisser. Ok I take that back some guys probably do but he clearly doesn't seem to. You may also want to consider he may just not be interested if he already has someone else but that's something you may need to look into and find out. As for how to start a conversation just start one - talk about something, anything. After the weekend just go in and say hi and ask him how his weekend was, see how he responds. If he talks then it's a good start but if he doesn't then he clearly wants to keep work and social life away from each other in which case it might just be a dead end.
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