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how to ask?
so theres this new guy at my school thats super cute but i dont have any classes with him and i hardly see him during the day although he does play soccer and i play volleyball so he comes through the gym everday! but anyway theres this dance coming up this friday and i want to ask him if he wants to go with me to the dance. i dont know much about him because i hardly see him but my friends that have classes with him say hes really down to earth, funny,and nice and thats excactly what i want in a bf! i say hi to him in the hall ways and i talked to him a couple of times and he does seem like all the things my friends said he was. its jus i really wanna go to the dance with him so i can get a chance to know him better.i also dont want to wait to long that someone that knows him better decides to ask him and he says yes! i really dont want that to happen becuase he is really attractive and sweet and funny!i just wanna know how i can ask him out to the dance. i hav something in my head but i wanna hear some other suggestions!!thanx!
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hey, just be like this.
if your a bit shy person and want to ask him out but not infront of your friends or his or people just be like "can i talk to you for a minute, if it's alright with you." and act all shy when you say that so he might think somethings up but not really think. and than talk to him while taking him to a quite place if your in school and u have lunch or during your breaks whenever you see him in school take him where no one can distrub you guys and be like, while walking with him be like." so whats up?, hows your day so far." and wait for his answer and you guys might evnetually start a convo really quick. and than later on before that after you have a lil convo with him or if you guys have more and want to end it before it's to late just be like
"hmm i'm sorry to stop like this but i kinda want to ask you a question if it's alright with you." than look down and wait tell he says ok.
and continue be like" well there is this dance hmm coming up soon and i was hmm wondering if you would like to go with me." act all blushy and look down and he'll know he'll say yes and if he doesn't say yes and says no dont worry he might change his mind later but if he doens't there are other guys out there but if you want him and he says no guys are just like that and if you do see him at the dance and he's not with anyone but with his friends still go up to him and be like" oh hey, i'm sorry but would you like to dance with me?" and he cannot of course say no to you.
hope i helped <3 let me know how thinks go between you and let me know if i gave you good advice.
p.s. make sure you guys are alone but if your a bit afraid of that maybe i dont know up to you call him up if you have his number or a friend could get it for you calling him and ask him out but other than that if you im on aim you can ask him on aim as well i know corny but give it a try if you can't really see him or talk to him at all in the hallway or in class becuase of the people around him thats the other way you can ask him but make sure that he doesn't have a girlfreind when you ask him out and all that stuff well got to go GOOD LUCK LET ME KNOW !! <3
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ok first of all you need to build up your corouge and ask him...what could it hurt? what kind of world is this if you can't get out there and fight for what you want? and if it don't go as planed then you got to get back up on that peddistool and say "Maybe next time" so don't throw a pittyparty if indeed he says no...maybe he has reasons beyond explanation...guys are weird we never know what's gonna happen...just ask and see...oh and if he's hot tell me if he has a brother(just kidding)GOOD LUCK! Hope he says YES!
Hope my advice helped!
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