jamiehelpsyou answered Tuesday September 4 2007, 5:16 pm: Listen I understand your pain and everything your going thru and I just want to say everything will be ok...believe me I know if your cutting yourself you must be in a great deal of pain...and when you cut yourself it balances out the pain to where you just numb all together and can't feel anything....that's why cutting is so addictive it numbs the pain for a little while,but the problem with cutting is that the pain keeps coming back....this is what I want you to know about yourself.....listen closely...you are not crazy nor are you mentally disturbed....you are just in a lot of pain a lot of the time...your heart is hurting and it needs healing....I suggest you read the holy bible,pray to the father and son...and take deep breaths....get a ruber band and put it around your rist..when ever you feel like cutting yourself just snap the wrist band...there's is just a temperary fix...until you decide whether or not you want to tell any body what's goin on.....keep praying and don't stop...the lord anwsers all prays...and don't worry you won't go to hell because your a cutter,but you will go if you don't pray to jesus and seek help in him.....ill pray for you,and I also will offer you my friendship....if you need a friend you can hit me up on yahoo...or on here.......with love your new friend/advicer jamie.....godbless you,and you'll be in my prays... [ jamiehelpsyou's advice column | Ask jamiehelpsyou A Question ]
SoxGh3to answered Saturday September 1 2007, 7:56 am: Its good that you realized you need help because cutting is a serious thing that could injure you badly. If you feel like you can't tell your parents go to someone you think you'd feel comfortable talking to . For example some one like a teacher, doctor, school guidance, a good trust worthy friend, but I'd recommend just talking to your parents about it try telling them why your doing it and what makes you want to just hurt yourself like that your parents are the only ones who'd truly be able to know why your doing it because they know you well I mean after all your are there responsibility. Please stop cutting its not a good habit and it could kill you all its doing is leaving marks behind so that later on you could remember why you cut on that specific spot its not going to help you face the problem its basiclly running away from it and "taking the pain away" which I think isn't much help.
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