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ahh please stop!
15/F
my grandma is ruining my life and my family! we went to a baseball game, and we weren't back till late. like 11. [oh by the way, she lives with us] anyways, we come home and there is cop cars in our driveway. if were gone too long, she says shes scared and calls the cops. shes done this multiple times. i cant stand it. im not going to stop living my life for her. its just not right. shes so freaking stubborn its like shes a little kid.
what can i do to make it better?
im not putting her in a nursing home.
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i think you should most definitely check in with her every so often. that wont be stopping you from living your life. i know it makes a really big difference when i check in with my mom. shes just in a better mood when i get home.
i think you can hang in there until you are out of the house, just stay patient.
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Shes probably doing that stuff because she loves and cares about you and your family so much, and doesnt want to lose you guys.
ask her why she gets so nervous, and you could always ask her what might help her feel less nervous. for ex. try calling her if you know you are going to be a little late, and tell her where you are
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tell her not to be worried, ask her why shes always worried and calling the cops.
and since she is calling the police multiple times, the cops will probably think its just a "joke" and they won't come again which could be dangerous in emergencies.
Maggie
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