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Tampons vs. Fingering
I'm 13 and I can put a tampon in just fine. But I was thinking to myself if fingering feels like pleasuring, why doesn't a tampon feel pleasuring? I mean your still sticking something up there it's just a different material or whatever. I have never fingered myself before though. THe reason for that I used a tampon but not fingered myself is because I have to use a tampon for different sports I do. But I don't have to finger myself, and I'm afraid i'll break my hyem [sp?] if I do. So my two questions are, why does fingering feel good but not putting tampons in, and do you think since I have used tampons before and my hyem didn't break, fingering won't break it?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Both of those things can rupture the hymen. So can horseback riding and a few other things.
I think the reason a tampon doesn't feel pleasurable is the same reason going to the gynecologist isn't: it's your mindset. You aren't thinking in terms of pleasure. However, when you are masturbating, you are thinking in terms of pleasure. That's why it feels good. That's basically the rule of thumb with sex: what feels good is sex. What doesn't... isn't. =:0)
Hope this helps!
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What Katie said was right...except for that both tampons and fingering can still break your hymen. There is a small opening but it will still break.
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one, a tampon doesn't break your hymen(sp?) becuase it is too smal there is a small hole in it(hymen) and it allows small objects to fit in but not big ones.
two, fingering feels good because you are moving it in and out quickly, and i don't think anybodys done that with a tampon before.
three, fingering won't break it because it's too small.
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