the only problem is all of my friends think he's creepy and a nerd. i mean, yeah, he is a big nerd, but i do kind of like him back. i don't hang out with his friends, and he doesn't hang out with mine. i'm afraid that if we started dating that my friends wouldn't have as much respect for me. i had one friend that told me that "it would end in a trainwreck." i don't know if you'll be able to help me at all, but what should i do? i don't think he's creepy.
Erinn_the_bamf answered Friday August 31 2007, 12:30 pm: If you don't think he's creepy, then go out with him. If your friends are real, they aren't going to like you less due to who you go out with. If they do, they just aren't good people, and you don't deserve to have to deal with them. Besides, he'd may make a great boyfriend, but you won't know unless you give him a chance! [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
wisewoman98 answered Friday August 31 2007, 12:09 pm: if you do like him them go for it! dont listen to your friends. you have to learn how to be yourself and not just go with the flow. you have to stand out and be different. i mean if everyone was the same the world would be pretty boring right? it doesnt matter if he is a nerd or the captain of the football team, if you like him and he likes you, then who knows how it will end up. maybe it will end up badly but maybe it will end up great and you guys will be really happy together. you just have to take the chance. [ wisewoman98's advice column | Ask wisewoman98 A Question ]
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