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please help clear a misunderstanding between me and my boyfr


Question Posted Monday August 27 2007, 8:12 am

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 21

I was very sick yetsterday since i had a stomoch ache due to periods.I cudnt call my boyfriend the whole day yetserday even tho i was supposed to cos i could hardly talk (bcos i was having a severe pain).So instead i called him last night.He was really pissed with me.you see while browsng hi5 the day before yesterday i came across a celebrity's profile.My freind natasha is crazy on him.So I mailed that celebrity on behalf of natasha to ask him his handphone number cos natasha couldnt go online to do so since she has a computer breakdown.
My boyfriend has seen the mail yesterday and he thinks i mailed that celebrity becos i'm crazy on person or something.
so he was really pissed with he. he says "if u can mail that celebrity to ask his phone number why cant you call me?, havent you got time?"

I love my boyfriend aloooot and it hurts me the way he talks.I think the world of him and i think he's the most handsomest guy on earth.How do i explain this to him?

I know he loves me alot too.

He probably thinks i dont love him at all.

please, what do i so about this. please help me.
I'm really depressed.

I wopuld sure appreciate it alot if i could get some help


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jmimms answered Monday August 27 2007, 9:50 am:
It sounds like there is a big misunderstanding. However, these can be easily cleared up if you trust one another. being a woman I know how painful stomach aches can be, I also know how annoying it is when people say that they are going to call, but then they don't. If you want your boyfriend to trust you you have to be trustworthy. A texted would have been helpful just to say that you are really sick and will call him later. That would let him know that you are thinking of him and respect him. He has no idea of what was going on and all he sees is you making an extra effort to e-mail your friend. He could be a little insecure of your dedication to him...not your problem unless you have given him a reason to believe so. Darling, call him and apologize for not calling him and ask him what he would like for you to do if this happens again. Also, let him know that you were really sick and if your friend asked you to do this when you were sick you would not have done it either. this is the case isn't it?

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