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please help clear a misunderstanding between me and my boyfr
I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 21.
I was very sick yetsterday since i had a stomoch ache due to periods.I cudnt call my boyfriend the whole day yetserday even tho i was supposed to cos i could hardly talk (bcos i was having a severe pain).So instead i called him last night.He was really pissed with me.you see while browsng hi5 the day before yesterday i came across a celebrity's profile.My freind natasha is crazy on him.So I mailed that celebrity on behalf of natasha to ask him his handphone number cos natasha couldnt go online to do so since she has a computer breakdown.
My boyfriend has seen the mail yesterday and he thinks i mailed that celebrity becos i'm crazy on person or something.
so he was really pissed with he. he says "if u can mail that celebrity to ask his phone number why cant you call me?, havent you got time?"
I love my boyfriend aloooot and it hurts me the way he talks.I think the world of him and i think he's the most handsomest guy on earth.How do i explain this to him?
I know he loves me alot too.
He probably thinks i dont love him at all.
please, what do i so about this. please help me.
I'm really depressed.
I would sure appreciate it alot if i could get some help
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It sounds like he's a bit insecure for some reason, and it's hard dealing with that when you know he's your ultimate -- for you, it goes without saying, whereas many people have trouble seeing such value in themselves.
I'd suggest you make a special time to get together with him. Let him know beforehand that there's no problems to deal with, but there was a misunderstanding you want to get cleared up in person.
Light a couple candles, see if he'll bring a bottle of wine, then sit and tell him exactly what you told me. Don't go overboard with your praise; just be sincere and make sure he knows how much you really value him and what your reason was for not getting ahold of him.
There's a possibility he'll want you, in those situations, to give him a very quick call just to say "Hi, I don't feel well today, but I just wanted to check in for a minute." His day might be hard without hearing your voice, so let him know exactly how much you can or can't do.
All he needs to know is that he's prioritized, that you haven't neglected him in preference of doing something else. I'm sure a nice dinner and sit-down chat will sort that out, no bother. :)
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