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please help clear a misunderstanding between me and my boyfr
I was very sick yetsterday since i had a stomoch ache due to periods.I cudnt call my boyfriend the whole day yetserday even tho i was supposed to cos i could hardly talk (bcos i was having a severe pain).So instead i called him last night.He was really pissed with me.you see while browsng hi5 the day before yesterday i came across a celebrity's profile.My freind natasha is crazy on him.So I mailed that celebrity on behalf of natasha to ask him his handphone number cos natasha couldnt go online to do so since she has a computer breakdown.
My boyfriend has seen the mail yesterday and he thinks i mailed that celebrity becos i'm crazy on person or something.
so he was really pissed with he. he says "if u can mail that celebrity to ask his phone number why cant you call me?, havent you got time?"
I love my boyfriend aloooot and it hurts me the way he talks.I think the world of him and i think he's the most handsomest guy on earth.How do i explain this to him?
I know he loves me alot too.
He probably thinks i dont love him at all.
please, what do i so about this. please help me.
I'm really depressed.
I would sure appreciate it alot if i could get some help
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I think your boyfriend is over-reacting. While I understand that he is asking for you to consider his feelings and needs... Doesn't he need to return the favor? Did he ever say, "I'm sorry you weren't feeling well?" Or even give you a chance to explain?
That wasn't considerate... Of YOUR feelings and YOUR needs.
The reason I'm pointing this out is because I've watched my girlfriends bend over backwards to make their boyfriends happy... Only to be treated badly in return. For years. What every man and woman needs to understand is that relationships are not one way. (Life is a two-way street. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you... The golden rule... Yadda, yadda, yadda...)
I'm not accusing your boyfriend of being a bad person or even treating you badly... What I AM saying is that you need to stand up for yourself and confront him. Let him know that while you're sorry that you upset him... You were in a lot of pain. He needs to try to understand. Also explain to him what happened and then tell him that you don't appreciate the accustations or not giving you the opportunity to explain yourself before. Tell him you're sorry... But also make sure to tell him that YOU DESERVE an apology.
If he continues to over-react... Maybe you need to re-assess your relationship and decide whether or not this is a person you want to pursue a relationship with at all.
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