okay look i have a homegurl named sona and i been talkin to her boyfriend manuel alot like till 5:00 am frm 9:30 or erlier in the nite time does he really love her like he says he does does he like me to we talked bout how we cant do this to her but i feel a connection with him now what should i do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xmastaassgrabbax answered Sunday August 26 2007, 10:58 am: Nothing if you want to still have Sona as your friend than leave her man alone. He might just be being friendly, since you are her friend and all. I would recommend stopping it while you still can because the last thing that you want to happen is they break up and she hates you. It's just kind of a drama started I had a similar situation and I'm still having mad problems because of it. I wouldn't recommend it find someone whos single.
Catlovers141 answered Sunday August 26 2007, 10:50 am: Since he is your friend's boyfriend, it wouldn't be right to act on your feelings. Imagine how hurt your friend would feel if she found out that you were with her boyfriend? If you act upon your feelings, you could lose your friend. Is this really that important to you?
Maybe if they break up, you could go out with him, but even then I would give it time because you friend might be hurt if she isn't over him.
I know that other people might give similar answers to mine, but that is because it is true. You shouldn't sacrifice your friendship to be with her boyfriend, no matter how you feel about him. And another thing, if he cheats on his girlfriend with you, then what will stop him from cheating on you?
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