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i dont know what should i do???!? its me and my bf..
I dont know what to do. Ok im 17 and pregnant and my boyfriend is 16 hes he father. some girl from school broke us up last year around september or so. i completely broke down. but we got back together in december. i love him with everything ive got. weve now been together almost 2 years. thing is. this girl is still trying to break us up. shes started a lot of lies and stuff. well now shes telling me all of a sudden that shes been having sex with my boyfriend and that she miscarried his baby. but i dont know what to beleive. i obviously wouldnt beleive her but then she sent me an AIM convo between her and my bf (sapposedly) but i dont know if its real or messed with. the words in it sound JUST like he would type them, but something dont make sense, but many of the things do. i had 2 of my best friends sleep over last night and they have known my bf for many years. and they say that it is not like him and that they doubt he would cheat on me and that they didnt even think he could. i dont know what to do or idk what to beleive. all i kno is i cant raise a baby myself. im goin to college. what do i do!? my bf says that nothing happened he crys all the time because hes scared hell lose me, but i dont know if they are fake or if he really is serious i dont know anymore.
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If your boyfriend is scared he will lose you then why would he do something thats sure to cause you to give him the boot?
Some people get off on causing trouble. Sounds like this girl is one of those people. Your boyfriend
needs to tell her in no uncertain terms that he is
not interested and she needs to back off now.
He may be enjoying the fact that this girl likes him enough to do all these things, because guys like
having the old ego stroked, but he needs to think of you and his baby.
Then you both need to block her from AIM. Change phone numbers, and not let her into your lives anymore. Forget all convos she claims to have had with him, forget her claims of a past miscarriage.
Her word is unreliable. believe nothing she says.
If he doesn't have a job to keep him occupied, make him get one. He has responsibilities now and he needs to start taking care of them.
Remember you have some hormonal changes going on that may make you overly sensitive right now. Just
try to keep a cool head. :)
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