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guys opinion
i would prefer a guys opinion on this, but a girls opinion would work too.
my sister stephanie has been going out with this kid pat for a couple months. pat has a younger brother thats my age. we've been talking for about a month, but we still havent meet yet. we both like eachother, but pat doesnt want us to meet because he doesnt want us to go out.
would that(your brother going out with your girlfriends sister) bother you too? and if so, why? because i dont understand why pat doesnt want his brother and i to go out.
thanks
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Hmmm... maybe Pat is afraid that if you and his brother get close, his brother might tell you personal things about him, or their family, that he doesn't want your sister to know about. I don't know... that's the only reason I could come up with! :]
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Hi there,
You didn't say how old you guys were but to me it sounds kinda like 'I don't want you to go out with my girlfriends sister because I don't want to have my little brother around me all the time'
I don't think it's the fact that two sisters are going out with two brothers, I just think its because he wants private time with his girl and doesn't want the 'annoying' little sibling around at the same time.
Perhaps have a chat and be mature about the situation and explaint that they can't make you choose who to like and who not to like and if you want to go out with them.
Good luck
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It's not that Pat hates you it's that if he ever ended it with your sister (or vice-versa) things could get messy with you dating his brother. It would bother most people in the same situation myself included if a sibling dated a girlfriend's sibling.
Luckily, I don't nor have I had that problem before. If you like Pat's brother there is nothing stopping you from meeting or dating him. Pat may object but he cannot stop his brother.
Next time you talk with his brother tell him it's stupid you haven't met yet and that you want to go out with him but are going to move on unless they stop wasting your time and preventing a meeting. Sometimes, you have to be assertive and foreceful to get what you want.
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