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sick and tired
Ohkay so i have this friend hwo ive known ever since 4th grade. meaning 4years ive known her. And we've been the best of friends. She knows me the best and i know her the best. But she has these other two friends that they make there little group thing. And now she mostly hangs out with them. And or dicthes me sometimes for them. Shes those people who really doesnt care about anything, sometime or mostly can be selfish and spioled . But, shes my friend and i accept that. Theres alot of reasons that were friends. But yeah anyways , Ive called her everyday and she never, even once called me back. Nope. But she always has her phone with her . Im sick of it. She only picks it up for "j" which is one of her buddies in her little "group". She only makes time for J. UGH. yes i admit it i am jelous. And i think you would be too. Im the one who always have to ask her if she wants to hang out. I AM THE ONE WHO HAS TO DO EVERYTHING. But shes too dang selfish to understand that. I need help! What do i tell her!?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Instead of ranting about how you're jealous & hate that stupid group, you sit her down & tell her the truth. Tell her as nicely as possible, and if she doesn't seem to get it - you scream it at her.
Give her a wakeup call & if she still doesn't get it, then you get a new friend. Best friends aren't supposed to ditch you & ignore your calls just because they made new friends.
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You have to let her know it's bothering you that she only has time for some guy to talk to but not you,it really is selfish of her.She should make some time for you,that you have been holding this feeling of being left out all the time,you also tell her if she keeps on with her ways she is going to lose you,others because she is pushing you away,what you want is for your friendship with her to be saved it would mean a lot to you if she would change.
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