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school is starting.
im 16/f & school starts in a few days for me. on august 27th & im going to be a junior. & i have so many problems like i can't concentrate & i have ADD. and also i can't remember stuff & i get easily distracted. since i can remember whenever i come home from school i would watch tv. & now i know the password for my computer & can't seem to stop going on. & instead of doing my homework im always doing something & my mom calls me & lie about doing my homework & she finds out when she comes home. because when she comes home i only have on homework done. so what should i do about that? & also theres the part that my friends from my group except for one girl moved away. & so i don't have many friends because everyone at my school thinks im annoying & that im always getting up into their business. & i do do that. so how should i stop doing that? & since the beginning of high school people have been making fun of me for being skinny & hairy. & i always end up getting in fights with them & my parents are getting calls from school about that. in 9th grade i got punched in the eye because i called her skinny & a whore. & for that i've had a bad rep. & i got in another fight with this girl because i over reacted. & then in 10th grade i got in a fight & almost got beat up. so im always getting in fights & i don't want to be that person anymore. what should i do to make friends & get people's respect because i don't want people to think im annoying & rude & make fun of me all th time when they see me. so what should i do?
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I've had the same problem.The resort to ADD is aderal.I use to take it a while back.I stopped in 6th grade though.Just to see if it has an effect on me, Which it did.I just never went back to it.Although I'm thinking I need to.If you do already then try not sitting by your friends and be in the front.Focus and hopefully you'll do okay.As for the computer and tv thing is discipline yourself.Everytime you come home from school.Make sure you finish it then do what you want.That's the only thing I can think of to solve that problem.Once your hooked on the computer, you always tell yourself you'll do it later.. and it end not doing it.Trust me, I know.I'm with youu!Developing friends is just be socialable.Don't hesistate to have a random conversation with anybody either,But don't interrupt someone or they'd think your annoying somehow.Be yourself and be confident.That's really all you can do.Trust yourself and be fun.When you end up in a arguement.Never end it with a fight.Violence will not solve your problems.If you have to.. walk away.That's one of the smartest thing you can do.Don't let them talk down to you and don't you ever go down to their level.Be the better person and walk away.See a counsleor if you must.Make sure you OUT of trouble, rather than in it.Hope I helped and good luck!If you have anymore questions, ask pleasee! :]
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