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hurtful words.
17.f
theres this kid that i have liked for a very long time. well at the beginning of the year he found otu i liked him, and he said the most hurtful thing about me, in front of my 2 bestfriends. now they obviously told me. and when they did i confronted him and i was flipping out. now me and him have been friends for a very long time. and i dont want to loose him as a friend. but what he said was extremely hurtful and made me feel like i was nothing. well the day after he told me how sorry he was and that if he didnt mean it then he wouldn't have said it. so i guess he meant what he said. and that made me seriously cry for about a week, because it hurt so much. I talk to him now, with him knowing i like him. and he's all cool with that we are jut friends. i just dont know if i did the right thing by talking to him again. Because he hurt me so bad and made me feel ugly, feel like a nothing and i could never be pretty. i guess im just wondering if by me maknig the choice of talking to him again was the right choice?
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Well it kind of depends on your guys relationship. If it really was important to you and if you like being his friend, and he apologized you made the right choice. Even though he did hurt your feelings. But sometimes people can be so mad or confused it makes them feel clear and some how better by saying something mean. Which is of course a HUGE mistake. But then when they have some time to think about your guys relationship and that he cares about you as a friend of course he should feel regret and alot of guilt. And sometimes a person needs a second chance. Just make sure he is treating you right. And remember that we all have made mistakes and said some stuff we dont mean and later regret. So remember those words he said to you were just probably slipped out of anger but not the truth. But it is your decision.
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Only you can feel if it's the right choice or not.
I think everyone deserves second chances, but it's all depending on what was really said or done.
Like my friend that I liked for a long time knew I liked him and he misled me to believing he liked me too, he told me he did. Then a week later, me and him were supposed to hang out at the mall but he invited his girlfriend and was making out with her in front of me the whole time.
I didn't forgive him because I was hurt that he lied to me and falsely misled me just to hurt me.
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