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i hate my mom
ok, i'm 12/f. my parents have been divorced for over a year now. and all though that seperation, me and my mom have been fighting about all the boys she has dated. she has dated SO many. and we ALWAYS fight about it. i've told her my feelings, and she always says that her kids come first... but shes not doing that. i'm not ready for her to have a boyfriend... she cusses alot, and she calls me crazy for not understanding. i don't understand cuz i always thought that it was supposed to be:
two people fall in love, then they get married, have kids, the dad goes to work, the mom stays at home to help her kids, then on weekends, the family goes to the little brother's soccer game.
but now, it goes:
mom goes to college in the morning and at nite every day of every week, the kids go to school, the kids prepare their on food, then the kids have to wait a month for last month's laundry, then on weekends, they see their father who lets them do anything.
i don't understand!!!!!!!!
now, plzz help me understand what to do.
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You've been put in a really unfair situation, but
try to just make the best of the situation. help out with the laundry, clean your spaces in the house, and try to make the situation as bearable as possible. remember what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
have you got any grandparents living near by that you could visit?
or maybe spend moe time at a friend's house..
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Dont hold a grudge against your mom..
it seems like shes a really busy woman!
you should deffinitly try to help her around the house and try to understand her point of veiw on her idea of a family, you should tell her that you need to talk to her about things and sit her down, and tell her how you feel.
hope i helped =]
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